Our Best Strategy: Work Multiple Hookup Websites at Once

You might have noticed that while we say you’ll have a steady pipeline of girls into your life, it looks like we only got laid a few times on each website (though more on our top few websites, of course). Does that mean that we only get laid once or twice a month?

No way!

When we use these sites for fun, and not to just write reviews so that you guys know which dating sites are the best for hookups and which are the worst, we make sure to work the Internet to our advantage. What do we mean by that, exactly?

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Use many hookup sites at once.

That’s right-when we say we got laid ten times on one site in a month, don’t forget that we were working several at once. If we got laid ten times on one site, five times on another, and six on a third, we’re doing just FINE for the whole month!

We strongly recommend that you use more than one dating site at a time. While it’s good to find a personal favorite site (our favorite is SocialSex.com, for the sheer number of ladies we wound up hooking up with), it’s also important to find a FEW sites that you’re having good results with. That way, if there’s a slow day with the ladies you’re talking to on one site, you can always head to another to see if you’ve got some sugar waiting for you over there.

So, what are you waiting for? You’re going to go join ten or twenty sites right now, right?

Actually, no. We recommend that you don’t run out and join every site where you can get a membership, for a variety of reasons. The first reason, of course, is COST. Remember that most sites charge by the month. If you’re nuts and join every site, you can easily wind up paying several hundred dollars per month just to hook up!

Pick two or three sites.

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Just because more sites equals more women doesn’t mean you should go nuts about it. Two or three sites is a good number. You can look at our top five websites for hooking up, and see which ones work the best for you (we bet at least one of them will be SocialSex.com, but we’re a little partial because of all the good sex we’ve had because of it).

Once you have your couple good websites, it’s time to start working the sites properly. You don’t want to just jump in half-assed, or you won’t get laid at all. Most guys on hookup websites DON’T get laid. That’s why guys think that hookup and dating websites are for girls, or that they’re full of crap. Make sure you spend the time you need to in order to learn how to make a great profile, and how to pick a good profile picture, and most importantly, how to send a great first email on a hookup website. If you don’t know what you’re doing, there’s no reason to waste your money on ONE hookup website, let alone on three.

Once you know what you’re going to be doing, make a schedule. You want to be able to keep all of your dates straight. One of the best ways to get laid on hookup websites, believe it or not, is to make sure you’re NOT always available. It’s a little like playing hard to get, except you’re never telling the girl “no.” Just tell her that you’re only available at certain times, because you travel often for your job. That makes you sound busy, important, safe, and interesting, which sells itself.

Make sure you don’t overexert yourself.

You need to be able to put some significant time into these websites in order to get the most out of them. You don’t have to put a LOT of effort into any one site, but if you’re going to use a few at a time, that can still stack up pretty high after a while. If you let your profile lapse and don’t update it often, it’ll get bumped way far down the pages of results when women in your area search for a guy. You want to stay on top of the game!

Use your time wisely.

Do you have a great first email? Good. Now, think: who is to say that you need to use a different first email for every girl that you meet? It’s not like they’re going to get together and compare notes.

Get a few emails that work well for you, and use them as templates.

If you can send out template emails (NOT form emails-there is a difference) to girls, you’re freeing up a lot of your own time. Like we said, these aren’t form emails. You want to include each girl’s name, for example, and change any hobbies of hers that you mention to whatever that girl is actually into. Girls don’t like it when they think you’re treating them to a recycled greeting!

If you can use your time wisely and keep to a good schedule, there’s no reason you can’t double or triple your success rate with online hookup websites by using several sites at once. Pretty soon, you’ll be surprised at how much you were limiting yourself!

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