“Is she ready for a trip to sex shop?”
If you’re meeting someone for a hookup, you’re looking to get laid. It’s just that simple, and everyone knows it. Doubtless if you’ve taken the time to find someone in particular to try and hook up with rather than just gone to the bar and tried your luck with the lonely woman sitting at the corner table, you have a pretty good idea of how you want the night to go. Maybe you’ve been chasing this girl for a while and have just now snagged a date with her, or maybe it’s a girl you’ve been sleeping with for a while and you’re going to try something new. For the perfect sexual encounter you might have to stop at your local sex shop to grab some things, and that necessity brings up a great question: should you have everything on hand when you meet up with her, or should you wait so you can go together? The answer varies from situation to situation, woman to woman, but here are some general pointers.
“Keep them handy”
There’s one item that you should always have on hand if you’re looking for hook ups, and that’s a good supply of condoms. If you think that condoms are all you and your girl are going to need that night, you’ll definitely want to make sure to hit the sex shop before you meet up with her. Having to stop on your walk, ride or drive home to grab condoms makes you seem really tactless, not to mention tacky and unprepared and that’s the last way you want a girl who’s about to climb into bed with you to perceive you! If you and your lady are just in it for quick, casual sex then you don’t have to worry about waiting for her; she’ll be more impressed with you if you just hit the shop beforehand and pick up what you know by now the two of you need. Then you can get home and get down to business quicker.
If you have a little more planned for the night or more specific activities, it’s probably a good idea to wait until you meet up with your girl to head to the shop. If there are specific types of lubes she likes, wait until she’s with you and go so she can show you what she likes! If you know there’s a type of toy she’s been dying to try out that you’ve wanted to get for her, don’t just grab it and risk getting the wrong kind, or one she doesn’t like. Wait for her to meet up with you and then go together so you make sure you’re getting something you both approve of and enjoy to avoid any dissatisfaction. It might be a good idea to wait for your girl to go with you as opposed to stopping there before the encounter if she’s the kind of person who’s extremely picky. If she’s a regular partner of yours, don’t worry, after a while with her you’ll learn each others’ preferences and you’ll be able to know exactly when to go ahead of time and when to wait.