“Take it slow”
It seems a little contradictory at first, doesn’t it? You heard right, though. Believe it or not, there are a lot of women out there who wanted to wait and save their first time for the right guy, but not necessarily in that romantic sense you tend to see. Women like this are particularly picky, wanting to make sure the first experience they have is worthwhile and well, that’s where you come in.
Any hookup or dating site online is going to full of profiles made by women who, although they’re as hungry for sex as you are, aren’t experienced. Guys tend to shy away from women like this when on the hunt for quick, casual hookups for a variety of reasons, typically that they’re worried it won’t be good and they don’t want to take the time to be patient. This is a little silly, considering that even if a girl is beautiful, there’s no guarantee that she’s going to be good in bed whether or not she admits to having had sex before, and when you think about it this way, you’re taking a chance on every hookup. If that’s the case, why disqualify a woman just because she isn’t as experienced?It’s an ego boost for you if you hook up with a virgin, really. You can take pride in knowing that her first true sexual experience was with you, and that gives you ample opportunity to make it good.
“Don’t keep her waiting for long”
While a little extra patience is necessary when hooking up with a girl who might not have been with a man before, it’s not as if you have to hold her hand and make her take baby steps to the bedroom. In fact, if you do that she’s more than likely to walk right out of your room and never look back just because you were so condescending about it. There might be a few awkward questions at one point or another, but that’s okay. If she’s sincere and really wants you, she’ll be dedicated to showing you a good time and there’s something uniquely attractive about that, don’t you think? It’s important not to pressure her into anything, but you will have to take the lead a little bit. For you though, that shouldn’t be a problem. You know what you’re doing, so make sure that while you’re having your fun, she’s having some too, or you just come off as that self-centered jerk who’s only in it for himself.
She’ll be so eager to try things she’s probably been hearing about from her friends out on you that you could end up having some mind-blowing sex. You can show her the time of her life and if she’s hot and wants to keep seeing you, the relationship can progress into something more: a steady friends with benefits relationship or maybe even something a little more than that. Either way, it’s almost a constant guarantee that when you want to get laid, you’ll have someone available! What could be better than that?