“Foreplay has to be good”
The sad truth is that few women finish during sex from penetration alone, so while you might please her that way, it’s best to get her worked up with some intensive foreplay first so it’s easier for her to come. For a lot of men foreplay can be a source of anxiety, especially if you don’t feel comfortable with your skills orally or are just nervous about going down there in general. If the taste is off-putting to you, there are a lot of ways to utilize various foods to stimulate her while simultaneously making the job easier for you to do. There’s always the romantic chocolate, the sweet honey, and there are actually companies who make edibles specifically for sex and foreplay.
If you’re wondering how to broach the topic of using food in the bedroom without making it obvious that you actually need to use it, just tell your girlfriend that you have a sexy surprise planned for her. Get the room ready for a romantic rendezvous with candles, petals if you’re feeling classy, and a nice plate of food on a nightstand. Include a variety of things (chocolate syrup, honey, whipped cream, fruits) so that she can pick her favorites. Running chilled fruit like strawberries down her body is tantalizing enough, but she’ll go crazy when you bite into it. Cover the strawberry in chocolate syrup or whipped cream, and dragging it down her body will leave a tasty trail that you won’t be able to get enough of. Be sure not to leave the juices from the strawberry in your mouth when you start in on her, though! The acid from the juice will burn, ruining the romantic mood and her arousal. For strictly sexual purposes, the company Kama Sutra actually specializes in making oils and various food products for consumption during sex. You can heat the oils a bit and tease her while still enjoying yourself. Also, don’t be greedy with the foods! Feed her some strawberries while you’re down there, let her lick chocolate off your fingers or, if she’s more adventurous, let her try out the same thing on you.
“She would love to have some strawberries dipped in hot chocolate”
Don’t be afraid to take your time, and to get messy. Use stickier foods like caramel and honey so that you seem like you’re really working at her when really it just takes a while to get it all lapped up. Heavier foods like this and chocolate do a great job of masking her actual taste that deterred you before, and she is guaranteed to love it. Extended foreplay is a great way to get her hot and ensure that she feels adored at the same time. Going slow with her also makes you seem more romantic and concerned with her sexual gratification, so play it up! Have fun with it, and keep in mind the phrase “nice guys finish last”. Making that your motto in the bedroom will turn you into a more considerate lover, and someone that she just can’t get enough of.